Forty – The Paps Life

Sam, Sussex, UK

‘I’m turning forty at the end of July and I’m quite excited about that. And happy! I had a real wobble when I turned thirty.’ Sam didn’t like entering a new decade ten years ago. She says: ‘There was a lot of pressure – perceived, not necessarily real – to have your ducks in aContinue reading “Sam, Sussex, UK”

Forty (Me, in NZ)

My Dad pushed the roll of paper across the floor in the hallway, the brown sausage unravelling as it picked up speed before hitting the wall. “OK,” he said, looking across at me and my brother. “What are we writing on it?” “Happy 40th birthday Mum!” we shouted. “With a BIG four-zero!” Black marker pensContinue reading “Forty (Me, in NZ)”

Leigh, Derby, UK

“Well I hadn’t thought about it until you just asked me, everything was fine.” Leigh pauses. Hang on, I’m turning 40. WHAT?!” He laughs and tells me it’s parents that turn 40. “I’m still a kid.” Leigh says he doesn’t find the thought of turning 40 particularly daunting, but does think it’s an interesting time.Continue reading “Leigh, Derby, UK”

Kowhai, North Canterbury, NZ

“As 40 comes closer I think about it on a weekly basis; it definitely feels like quite an important milestone for me, a stake in the ground to which to compare the rest of my life against.” Kowhai is looking forward to turning 40. She says: “I’ve come through a lot of things over theContinue reading “Kowhai, North Canterbury, NZ”

Ben, Cheltenham, UK

“In all honesty, I’m absolutely fine about turning 40.” Pause. “But…” I wait while Ben looks out the window. “Every now and then you get this thing where you think, OK, I”m nearly 40, which is basically nearly 50, that’s nearly 60, 70..and you’re dead.” He laughs. “30 felt close to 20, 40 feels closerContinue reading “Ben, Cheltenham, UK”

Kathy, Bristol, UK

“I’m OK about turning 40. I mean, there’s certain things I want to tick off, but it’s just a number, it’s just another day.” Kathy looks contemplative. “By 30, I wanted to be married, have a house, and have a kid – or at least one in the pipeline. I was pregnant on my 30thContinue reading “Kathy, Bristol, UK”